Yet We Live

April 12th, 2018 Posted by Susan's Musings 9 comments

As human beings, we struggle to know ourselves; no matter how close we are to someone it is impossible to completely know another person. This is particularly true for our parents.

When my friend, Naomi*, was sitting shiva (the Jewish week of mourning) for her mother, she discovered some flabbergasting news. Naomi’s father was her mother’s second husband. Not only had she been previously married, but she and her first husband had two children. That husband and those children were murdered by the Nazis.

Naomi had known that her mother was in a concentration camp, though her mother never spoke of those years. She knew that her parents met in a DP camp; she knew that she and her older siblings, named for slaughtered grandparents, were born after her parents reached America’s blessed shores. But she never imagined that her mother’s life had included a previous young family. This information explained so much. She now could see her mother’s hyper-vigilance combined with a certain emotional gruffness not as personality quirks but as the tortured expression of inestimable pain.

I was unusual among my classmates in having four living grandparents. In addition,  all four of my grandparents were in America from before World War I. My parents were born and grew up in New York City. My father even had grandparents and great-grandparents of his own living nearby. Since my grandparents never spoke of their murdered parents, siblings, nieces and nephews, I had infinitely less personal exposure to the Holocaust than my schoolmates who sometimes listened to their parents’ midnight screams as nightmares took them back to unbearable days.

Why am I telling you this? Because I want to share an uplifting, optimistic and soul-affecting video with you. Before I do, here is an introduction.

Last week, at the Passover Seder, many Jewish families like ours said the following words in Hebrew, “For in every generation they stand over us to annihilate us and the Holy One Blessed Be He, saves us from their hands.” This is often sung to an upbeat tune, which is rather odd when you think of the first part of the sentence. My friends’ parents also sang this, yet each one mourned way too many loved ones who weren’t saved. Why didn’t they reject this statement as untrue?

The verse refers to the Jewish people as a complete organism. As long as there is one Jew left to sing these words, it is a true testimony. And yes, as a people with a long history, there are many horrific examples of slaughter, yet by God’s grace we are still here.

This post-Passover time of year is associated with Rabbi Akiva, whose famous statement, “What is hateful to you do not do to others,” has become a universal credo. Rabbi Akiva was the premier teacher of his generation at the time of the destruction of the Second Temple. He watched 24,000 of his students die in a plague. What did he do after such a devastating event? He chose five men and began teaching them so that the future would be assured.

As a child, I didn’t understand the greatness of those who suffered and saw their lives trampled and yet who picked themselves up and chose to have new children and new lives. Only a few survive today from that generation. Yet as this video (with English translation) shows, religious or not, learned or not, the overwhelming majority of the survivors followed in Rabbi Akiba’s footsteps. What an inspiring lesson this is for us.

*Naomi is not her real name. She is a composite of a number of my friends.

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9 comments

Laurie says:

What beautiful people, Susan. Thank you for sharing.

Gray says:

What an uplifting experience! Thank you!!!

James says:

Indeed, how many of our parents’ unpleasant quirks are but ‘a tortured expression of inestimable pain?’ Walk a mile in my shoes. Personal and familial calamity can be handed down for a long, long time. Yet we must rise above personal suffering to hope for the generational outcome. Thanks and bless you for sharing this touching video!

Lisa says:

So this means that every generation must keep their guards up and be prepared for the inevitable. Does this also mean within every generation there is a deliverer like Moshe? Thank you.

Tracy says:

How beautiful and inspiring! Thank you, Susan for sharing. The atrocities that the Jewish people have suffered are so tremendous, BUT the faithfulness of our loving GOD is truly what lets us all continue. I send you and your husband blessings and thank you again for your weekly tv program. You bless me immensely.

Brian F. Tucker says:

What is there to say but God bless Naomi and her family. As well as al of Judism. Also what a wonderful testimony of Rabbi Akiva’s statement that today the people of Israel are providing aid and comfort to refugees from a country populated with those who would like to wipe them from the face of the earth. May God bless you and Naomi and all of Israel. We pray for the peace of Jerusalem.
Brian & Joyce

Kristin Grose says:

A joyful and thankful song of hope!

Carl from SC says:

Thank YOU

Marilyn H. says:

I am moved to tears. Thank you for sharing this video, Susan. When I read the words “I live” in the video, I couldn’t help thinking that that was God speaking to us, as if He were saying, through His precious people who have lived through so much and continue to live, “I am the Living God!” Praise God for His everlasting love, for His goodness, despite the horrendous things people do to others.

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