Question: This is a serious question. I have teenagers now. What does the bible have to say about masturbation? And is there a difference in teaching between boys and girls? I would really appreciate an honest, biblical answer. Thank you.
Of course this is a serious question but we understand why you felt it necessary to forewarn us. And a serious, honest, Biblical answer is exactly what we would have done our best to provide, even had you not explicitly requested it. We also empathize with you and admire how seriously you are accepting the responsibility of raising children. In today’s cultural climate, it is enormously challenging to raise wholesome teenagers. However, we feel certain that doing so with Biblical help is far easier than without. For this reason, our answer involves you sitting down with each of your children in front of a Bible and studying some Scripture together.
Sex in general can feel awkward to discuss, particularly out of context. Its intensity is irrational and its power mysterious. When sexual relationships form, the process involves ambiguity and risk of rejection. Solo stimulation bypasses all of that for a small, sad, mimicking of sensation. Yet all attempts to rationalize sex, demystify and reduce it to no more than a mutual spasm in the spinal column, as taught in most sex ed. classes at what we call GICs (public schools=government indoctrination camps) have failed to improve male-female relations in America. So, it is with some trepidation that we try to tackle this topic here.