Firstly I would like to sincerely thank you for every podcast, thought tool, answer to every question with so much thought and wisdom. It’s been life changing listening and reading everything you and your wife share.
We live in Namibia, a country bordering South Africa and linked to the South African Rand. We are going through a huge recession and as the saying goes here – if South Africa has a cold, Namibia has Pneumonia. Everything that happens in SA has a huge impact on us.
We are seriously contemplating if we should emigrate. Why? The main reason – to create a better future for our children. There is little to no future for them in Namibia. As the economy worsens, corruption and violence increases.
Moving to another country like New Zealand means we can create a new life with new possibilities together. They can go on and study at numerous universities. They can get married and we can see our grandchildren grow up together…
…or we can stay and they will most probably move away themselves somewhere in the future, and with our weak currency visiting them anywhere in the world will be next to impossible…
We don’t know the future of our country but for now the future does not look great. We are by no means doom and gloom people and as mentioned earlier we are still safe but when does one get to the point where one actually takes a step toward something like what you call “the American dream”? When does your children’s future take preference before your own comfortable life(or seemingly comfortable life)?
Do we have a lot to give up? TONS!!! Both our families are all here. We are a very close knit family. We live on a stunning plot outside town with lots wide open spaces, My daughter (age 11) has her own quarter horse, the boys (ages 13 and almost 4) can climb trees and hunt birds. They love the animals and freedom. Here everyone knows who you are. You’ve already made your name. Basically our whole life- 14 years of marriage. Everything we worked for… we will have to leave that behind and look to the future, for our children…or stay and pray it gets better…
When is considering to emigrate a good option?
We have done a lot of research. We’ve made our lists of pros and cons. My head says go, my heart says no.
Any advice/thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much,
The B. family
Dear B. Family,
Thank you for writing and thank you for your kind words regarding our teachings. We derive great joy from hearing that our work benefits people’s lives.
While we shortened your letter a bit for this column, we hope we haven’t removed the emotional impact. As with so many other important life decisions, twenty years from now you will know what was the best thing to do, but by then you will be living the consequences of whichever decision you make. The good news is that by far and away, most decisions are not matters of life/death.
In all probability, twenty years down the road people will still be living, for better or for worse, in both Namibia and New Zealand. Occasionally the wrong decision places people in the heart of terrible war zones. Think of Jewish families who fled frightening rural parts of Poland in 1938 and settled in Warsaw only months before the Nazis invaded. Or the people who wanted to get away from it all and relocated to the Falkland Islands just before the war of 1982.