How do you appropriately defend against a false witness? Recently I have come across a situation where someone was falsely blamed in a situation. I did not witness the supposed misdeed but I know the nature of the person blamed and know them to be far removed from the type of behavior indicated from the “blamer”. I also know the nature of the finger pointers and what they have to gain from such false witness. Popularity and position.
It is not a criminal or illegal occurrence but it has tainted the individual in question to a degree within a small rural assembly. I feel like my hands are tied. Do you have any advice for this situation other than continued show of support?
I realize this may seem vague but I do not wish to create any more drama in an already ridiculous situation. I do feel that this is a repetitive situation in small town communities. The circumstances change but the story is sadly the same. Many times over.
The problem you pose and the question you are raising is not confined in any way to small towns. Our society is awash in false accusations and the politics of personal destruction.
We are often in a bind. Years ago, in a more moral age, it was easier to believe the adage, “Where there’s smoke there’s fire.” Now, it is meaningless. The news media have become practiced experts at producing smoke with no fire; without even a naked flame. Ancient Jewish wisdom is always uncompromising about not spreading or listening to slander or gossip.
However – and in our day and age this is a huge “however” – an exception can sometimes be made if there is possibility for harm by not sharing some potentially true negative information. For example, imagine being a new resident in a neighborhood where many of your neighbors are uncomfortable with their children sleeping over at one family’s house. They can’t substantiate their concerns, but there is general discomfort. Should they fill you in or not?