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My Employee is Having an Affair

Dear Rabbi and Susan, I have an ancillary employee that got caught by his wife having an affair. I do know through one of your Podcasts that you said that, “you cannot trust a person that his own wife does not trust” (due to an affair). It would really hurt our business without him (maybe...

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Our Family Cheating Scandal

Several in our family tackle the same newspaper’s crossword puzzle every day.  We’ve been having a bit of a debate. Is it, or is it not, cheating to look up an answer to a clue? No one is completing the puzzle for a prize, no one signs an honor code before being allowed to fill...

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Cheating thoughts vs. cheating actions

Dear Rabbi and Susan, Is cheating in thoughts as bad as bad as cheating in reality? And how does one drive away those sinful thoughts? Kind regards, Julia Dear Julia, A piece of useful parenting information is to avoid phrases such as, “You’re such a good girl.” Obviously, it is a terrible mistake to tell...

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The Young, the Elite and the Ignorant

My father-in-law, of blessed memory, used to say that people aren’t balance sheets. You can’t tout up a subjective view of a person’s good and bad points, do a quick mathematical computation and emerge with a ranking. Say someone always shoveled his elderly neighbors’ drives (+3), gave 15% of his income to charity (+3) and...

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Why is my cheating spouse doing great?

Question: Why when one is faithful in a marriage and is betrayed it seems like they are punished by the break up of the family and losses. The cheater goes on and looks successful.   How to move forward? ∼ Karen Answer: Dear Karen, We are so sorry for what sounds like a tremendously difficult...

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