How do I convince my relative that she is wrong to be so concerned with animal rights & veganism? She is a good person but its seems that she is more concerned w/animal welfare than people welfare. Where did this attitude come from?
We have a two-word answer for you: You don’t. In general, it is usually ineffective and often destructive to try to persuade anyone to abandon their convictions and sign on to our own beliefs. Trying to change the religious, political or social beliefs of others generally achieves nothing but damaged relationships.
Arguing about facts is fine because the answer can easily be discovered. We could insist that Mount Rainier is 14,400 feet high and thus some 2,000 feet higher than Japan’s Mount Fuji, to anyone who claimed the opposite. But arguing about beliefs is quite different. We would nod smilingly at the person who expressed the view that Mount Fuji is the most beautiful mountain visible from a major city. We believe that this distinction belongs to Mount Rainier near Seattle but why would we argue? We have different beliefs.