Is Airbnb anti-Semitic?

December 5th, 2018 Posted by Ask the Rabbi 19 comments

I’m currently an AirBnB host to earn extra money (I don’t need the extra income).  Recently AirBnB came out with a new policy not allowing Jews in the West Bank, or Judea and Samaria to rent out their homes. 

To me this seems like anti-Semitism and would like your advice on what to do?  I’m debating about canceling all future reservations, so AirBnB doesn’t receive any income from my property.

Thanks,

Justin L.

Dear Justin,

We feel so privileged to have people like you reading our columns. You hold yourself to a high ethical standard and are willing to back up your convictions with action.

We’re not crazy about the term anti-Semitism because we don’t know how to define it, any more than we can define racism, misogynism or most other “isms.” Try defining these terms for yourself.  You’ll see, it is not easy.  It is far too easy to hurl labels and take refuge by claiming that you recognize it when you see it, as Justice Potter Stewart said about pornography in the 1964 Supreme Court Case. We are not fans of terms that change depending on the speaker, the day and whims and fancy.

However, what we can define is when one group is treated completely differently from all or most other groups. This is the standard that Airbnb (as well as the BDS movement, the United Nations and many others) meets. Israel is penalized for behavior that is excused, ignored or even lauded in others.

Israeli Jews living in Judea and Samaria may no longer rent out their homes and apartments on Airbnb. Yet Muslims, Christians, and citizens of the Palestinian Authority are free to continue doing so. The boycott targets only Jews. 

What is more, Airbnb has listings in many contested regions such as Moroccan-occupied Western Sahara and Turkish-occupied Cyprus to name just two.

Many years ago, some of our children were in the audience at a business event whose speakers included Ben Cohen, co-founder of Ben and Jerry’s ice-cream company. This was at a time when U.S. troops were deployed in Iraq. Our children came home and said that the ice-cream maker’s words were not only anti-American but actually wished our soldiers ill. That was the end of our purchasing Ben & Jerry’s ice-cream.

Despite the popularity of the dessert in our home, we don’t imagine that the company noticed our lack of support. It was less a statement to them than a statement to ourselves, though if enough people would do the same thing, the company’s bottom line would be affected.  We simply could no longer enjoy that ice-cream. We are impacted by the things we say and do, even if nobody else is.  For this reason, acting on principle has value even if nobody else will ever know.  The point is, we know.  And the action strengthens us.

On the other hand, we have problems with the political positions of so many companies and we have not treated them all similarly. We would just about have to homestead on a self-sufficient farm to do so. We do try to react when a company’s behavior is egregious rather than simply wrong and harmful. We may very well be inconsistent. But inconsistency is not hypocrisy.

Justin, we think that this is a call you have to make for yourself. If you are asking whether we think that Airbnb is singling out Jews and Israel in a way that they do not treat others, the answer is yes. If you will sleep better at night knowing that you are not partnering with them, then we salute you.

Live with conviction,

Rabbi Daniel and Susan Lapin

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19 comments

Carl Schleg says:

Thx, Great insight,

Jim Doll says:

All done with Airbnb. And haven’t purchased ANYTHING from the communist ice cream makers in years.

John Crowder says:

Nor have I

We here in Israel do buy Ben and Jerry’s here in Israel. We have their ice cream plants here so it is made locally.

Susan Lapin says:

I have heard that from many Israelis, Devora. The question isn’t about the workers in the plants, it is where the profits are going. From what I understand, Ben and Jerry sold the company even though their names remain. However, the power of the company certainly pushes for Leftist and anti-Israel causes. So, they are supporting Israel’s economy with their plants there while using the profits against Israel.

Gervase Stafford says:

AMEN.

Doris Howe says:

Thank you, Rabbi & Mrs. Lappin.

Your insights are always so honest and poignant, hitting the true core-issue of a matter — which is vitally needed now, in our popular culture’s current trend of embracing delusion.

As a career-long Marketing-Public Relations/Media Relations professional representing high-profile companies and celebrities, I can tell you all that the media realm of public discourse, news and entertainment is now severely warped, and the businesses with immoral leadership (not all have this problem) are not immune from the phenomenon underway to unjustly coerce, pressure and punish people into accepting what a select few desire to be the new ruling-cultural norms and mores of the day. These are days in which we must prepare ourselves in advance for the unexpected and even extreme situations that may arise, and suddenly so, between people. We must as individuals take inventory of our hearts and minds, and know right now, in advance, what we will stand for and what we won’t tolerate; no matter what the potential negative feedback from others or sacrifice of comfort. We must be firm in our understanding of what truly is right & what is wrong. The world has seemingly slithered into a new epoch that props up and promotes the non-factual, illogical, unreasonable, unfair, unjust, and irrational — let alone, un-biblical — just to further agendas. That’s a very dangerous practice, as history has proven, that always threatens to squash inalienable rights.

As independent thinkers, we would be naive to sweep this pattern that Airbnb is contributing to under the rug and believe all is still “business as usual” and well, just because it’s not directly impacting us individually. No, all is not well, right now. When some are strong-armed — we’re all strong-armed — because the bully eventually comes around to pick on you. We should never wait, until so many of the good guys are picked off that there are no longer enough to put up a good, strong front. The days of old are not returning. It’s a new age in which the sober must speak out for what is right and against what is wrong, and educate others (especially the young). And, we must recognize and look to the only transcendent standards that exist and that are above moods and special interests. We must leverage and point to the standards of God and what He says are right and wrong in His eyes, because man’s eyes & heart tend to blur in compromise for the convenient, what feels good, what pleases others, and greed. We need to know what our convictions are and where we stand now, because the cultural climate — the spirit of the age — is not gentlemanly or ladylike, and it is growing more violent/bully-ish and unreasonable by the hour, and that is wrong. We mustn’t accept, tolerate or support what is unjust or having “choices” and points-of-view forced upon people. Man has a God-given right to choose for himself. And we must choose to stand or be rolled over.

Airbnb, schmare-bnb! People, take your patronage and your greenbacks to a good business or entrepreneur who deserves your gratitude — or take advantage and start-up a competitive, morally-rich business and compete head-to-head, because now, obviously, a new demand from a moral market has just been created regarding “where to stay when I travel!”

Susan Lapin says:

Doris, your response is quite lengthy but I hope many people read it. You articulate so many important points very well. Thank you.

LJ says:

Conversations we’ve had with various friends over the years have revealed many unfortunate misunderstandings due to the words involved. Many big companies, churches and organizations do engage in shifting our American culture to despise Jewish peoples. There is a movement to destroy the common Judeo-Christian value system once more commonly known as the “Ten Commandments.”

Our family was showing friends a “Buyer’s Guide” from the organization, The Human Rights Campaign, and then our friends said that they didn’t believe in boycotting companies. Our daughter made a profound distinction when she described her thoughts about how our family makes purchases. She said to our friends that we engage in “moral” purchasing rather than calling for massive boycotts. Her insight touched me. It also sounds similar to what you and Susan are doing.

Another conversation with a Canadian friend who is a commercial airline pilot revealed that he hates “Capitalism.” I asked him if he could define “Capital.” He then thought through what I was asking him and he happens to own rental homes. He said, oh blank, I’m a blank Capitalist! I didn’t quite expect his response, but he did realize the conflict with his position.

I find that people get a lot more out of conversations when there is a mutual understanding between the parites involved. There are definitely “common language and common sense” barriers between people in society at large. Finally, there are those companies and organizations that ought to be exposed but they’re not because their very aim is to destroy a common idea of “America.” Acceptable businesses are anti-Capitalist according to the avant garde!

Sincerely, LJ

Susan Lapin says:

Kudos to you and to your Canadian friend for being able to go beneath the surface and actually think.

Rich Flink says:

Initially, only Justin will receive the benefit if he drops Airbnb. But the boost to his self image will be significant. Then again, you never know–Actions have consequences –A pebble thrown into a pond makes ripples which travel quite a distance. If the posting of Justin’s letter and your response encourages people to have the courage of their convictions then who knows?!

Susan Lapin says:

You are right, Rich. More often than not, we don’t know the impact our decisions have in this world.

Joyce R. says:

I no longer buy Ben & Jerry’s because of their support of the BDS movement and I’ve never had reason to use AirBNB. I also am faced with the problematic support of both BDS and the Palestinian Authority by most of the old mainline churches, including the one I grew up in. Since I moved to my new home in Pennsylvania, I have not been able to find a church I feel I can put down roots in for this reason. I was dismayed recently when the Mennonite church adopted the BDS position. if one loves Israel and the Jewish people, how can one support a church that does not, even if the local congregation may not agree with that position? I pray continually for the Holy One to wake up the old mainline churches to the truth of what they are doing and bring them to repentance. Thank you for bringing this issue to the forefront once again. Blessings and Happy Chanukah.

Susan Lapin says:

Joyce, we know too many people, both Jews and Christians who felt “pushed out” of the synagogues and churches in which they grew up or where they belonged for years because of stances the places adopted. We even had a Catholic friend tell us he wasn’t comfortable in his church because the priest was wishy-washy about making pro-life statements. What a world!

Jhonni Good says:

Let me first state that as a born again spirit filled Christian believer I believe God & every word He spoke thru his prophets. Although Iv earned a degree in Theology I do not have complete OT revelation like my Jewish friends have because they understand Hebrew fully & im still learning the OT. I am awhere that Jews honor the Torah. Having said that we all know that there was always a mixed multitude that included themselves in the Hebrew exodus from Egypt, they were up to no good!!!!. And TODAY attempts still to infiltrate Israel. Often thru tunnels & other conniving ways. Israel is precious Holy land given to Jews by Yhwy. The enemy would love to fool you & make reserations thru any open door and get in ur territory in order to do harm. Please understand the Israeli govt MUST be vigilant. They cant treat Israel like any other regular country because it is not. So my friends as a gentile who loves all Gods people I ask you to consider this as being for your own protection. I dont see it as anti semitism I wouldnt be upset about it I wouldnt want Airbnb in the Holy Land. I pray for the peace of Israel often because the bible tells me too. Thanks for reading this. SHALOM

Susan Lapin says:

I’m not positive that I understand your point, Jhonni, but I do see that your heart is in the right place.

James says:

Greatly I admire your stance of caution against supporting or acknowledging spurious ‘-isms.’ The tired old ‘anti-Semitism’ card has become especially abused by progressive or secular leftist operators of Jewish persuasion who use the epithet ‘anti-Semite’ as the ‘label of death’ to hang like a millstone about the neck of an opponent. It goes like this: “I am a Jew: you disagree with what I say. Therefore you must be anti-Semitic.” I mention this because I have heard it several times. Still more common today is the similar paralogical wild-card: “You criticize our black president: therefore you must be a racist.” Such labeling is particularly ominous today, when accusations rule without burden of proof and so many of the younger generation seem not to be taught the power of critical thinking.

Susan Lapin says:

What you are stating is exactly what we are so wary about, James. And as you say, just like happened in the boy who cried wolf, when you diminish a phrase by overusing it, it isn’t available when needed.

James says:

Exactly! Only a fool would assert that anti-Semitism does not exist. But just like the boy who cried ‘wolf!,’ the anti-Semitism card has been overplayed as an epithet to neutralize political opponents. Yet when genuine anti-Semitism rears its ugly head, the word having been cheapened and trivialized to a routine political prank, who will take notice and who will act?

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