There are many life-metaphors to be found in the wonderful world of boats. Boats and people both embark on journeys and both can reach their destinations or sink.
When a boat is in the doldrums it is in that notorious windless zone near the equator. Old-time sailing vessels were often stuck there for weeks. When a person is listless and despondent, he is also said to be in the doldrums. But there is one major difference. While sailboats must await changing weather, humans have the miraculous capacity to bring about change in their lives themselves.
Being marooned in stagnant circumstances is enough to make anyone miserable. Change, growth, and progress are amazingly effective antidotes to depression. Most of us feel energized and optimistic when taking actions to improve our lives. Often, the changing calendar serves as a useful catalyst. But wait! What’s the point? We all know that most New Year resolutions fade away by spring.
One way to retain resolutions is to feel authentic, durable excitement in our souls about the spiritual magic of change.
Isn’t it rather strange how God introduced Himself to humanity on Sinai 3,330 years ago?
I am the Lord your God who…
Who did what?
Well, think of how 1980 presidential candidate Reagan might have introduced himself to voters. Depending on the crowd, he would want to highlight his most prestigious achievement. He might have said, “Hi, I’m Ronald Reagan who was the head of the Screen Actors Guild.” Or he might have said, “I’m Ronald Reagan who was governor of California.”
Similarly, God could have said, “I’m the Lord your God who created heaven and earth.” Instead, he said:
I am the Lord your God who took you out of the Land of Egypt…
God considered it more important to introduce Himself and His Commandments as God who took the Israelites out of Egypt rather than as God who created heaven and earth. Why?
Ancient Jewish wisdom explains that the purpose of the Ten Commandments is not merely to lay before us ten little rules but to provide us with vital tools for life. These statements are intended to transform Israelite slaves into God-centric, independent people. Remember that until relatively recently once a slave meant always a slave. For transformation to happen, the children of Israel needed to truly know that it was indeed POSSIBLE for change to occur.
Today, we may not be physically enslaved, but we can enslave ourselves by not knowing, deep inside of us, that we are capable of change. Making positive changes in our lives is terribly difficult. Most of us find it almost impossible to overcome our own inertia. Rather than undertake the massive effort necessary today, we simply condemn tomorrow to be a repeat of yesterday. Deeply internalizing the power of change is necessary to propel us to better times.
We’re all stuck in our own particular Egypt, whatever it is. To successfully change behavior in the long term, we need to change our image of ourselves. God’s opening statement assures us that if the Israelites could escape Egypt then each one of us can also escape our own limitations and weaknesses. Here are three tips to increase the probability of making a change permanent.
A. Make the first step of change reasonable. You can always upgrade later which will make you feel much better than downgrading. (The total transformation of a nation took 40 years. An individual won’t need that long for most changes, but don’t expect instant success either.)
B. At the outset, prepare a strategy to get you back onto your resolution’s plan after an unintended setback. (Atonement and forgiveness often occurred during the desert trip)
C. Break your commitment into defined and manageable parts. (There were numerous way stations on the path from Egypt to Israel)
Overriding every strategy is the awareness that, “I am the Lord your God who took you out of Egypt…” That statement serves as a constant reminder that God is eager to accompany us on our personal road out of the doldrums.