January 2026

Fifteen Years and Counting

Since I started writing a column on Substack focused on marriage, children, and family, I have been reading old Musings. I reprint previous pieces, often after expanding and updating them. If I can reach a new audience with a positive message, it is worth the effort. In this way, I came across two pieces dating

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Letter to the Pastors at Cities Church, St. Paul, Minnesota

Since the early 1990s, I have allied myself with Christian leaders whom popular culture has targeted. What motivated me was that seldom did American Christians fail to respond to Jewish appeals for support in the war against anti-Semitism. Yet, anti-Christianism, surely an equally threatening peril to the ongoing welfare of the country, wasn’t getting taken

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Is Returning Items You’ve Used Not Quite Upright?

Dearest Rabbi and Susan, What does Jewish wisdom say about people who use a gift with the intention of returning it to the store. My spouse has a habit of using something like a board game or a specialty tool like a grinder and returning the item after using it. I feel like it could

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What Might Happen If Women Spoke Less?

Before heading out into a blustery day, I went to find my winter gear in the coat closet. This necessitated walking about ten feet away from where I had been chatting with my husband. A minute later I called, “Hello,” and my husband tentatively responded, “hello.” He was confused because he didn’t realize that I

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When the Housewife Beat the Professors.

One of the best kinds of jobs to have is one in which you can never be proven wrong. Kind of like Anthony Fauci during covid. He claimed (mendaciously) that he was “following the science” so anyone dissenting was obviously nothing more than an illiterate neanderthal. At the other end of the scale, in the

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Nearly a million Jews were expelled from Arab lands, including my family

Israel is a gathering spot for people from many countries, different cultures, and diverse backgrounds. Nearly everyone has a fascinating story. Sarah Sassoon’s family background is one piece of history that should be better known. We met Sarah when her family was neighbors with our daughter’s family and are delighted to introduce her to you.

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My Husband Doesn’t Want His Boss

to know of his disability. My husband is severely dyslexic but over the decades has developed a wide range of coping strategies which effectively camouflage this condition. This week, he was criticized by his employer for behaviors linked to dyslexia, such as not taking notes during meetings. I would like him to be formally diagnosed,

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Life Is Not a Fairy Tale

Hansel and Gretel: good. The wicked witch who entices them into her house: bad. Snow White: good. Her wicked stepmother: bad. For goodness’ sake, in case we have any doubts the witch and stepmother even get labeled as “wicked.” Alas, the real world doesn’t usually divide into black and white. Even when the sides seem

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Innocent Flirting

Hello, I hope all is well with you and your family. I am a young beautiful wife with 3 children. I’ve been with my husband since I was 19 years old, I am 31 today. From the outside, we look like a great and successful family. In many ways we are. I’ve been incredibly blessed.

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Ladies and Gentlemen

Apart from those academics with doctorate degrees in gender studies, almost everyone else knows that the most basic binary in the world is between male and female. Never mind, cats, camels, cows, crocodiles, and kangaroos, even oak trees have male flowers and female flowers. What is more, there are significant biological differences between male bears

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