For 10 months I have employed a 13 year old boy to do yard work. He is very bright, borrows my books which we discuss off work time. Unfortunately it has just been confirmed that over time when he uses the bathroom he has been stealing from me. When I started to suspect I set a trap.
When confronted he denied but later confessed claiming his parents take all the money he earns. This may or may not be true and honestly I’m not sure about the parental situation. I do know if he was my 13 year old son I would have met his employer. Of course restitution is a given but what other advice would you have to handle this properly and effectively. Thank you in advance for your consideration.
You are a good man. That’s our conclusion from the fact that you are concerned for this boy. Clearly, you aren’t happy with simply muttering, “What’s the world coming to.” If you are expecting restitution, than either you are meeting his parents or planning to have the boy work for you until he pays off his debt.
You know as well as we do that, “My parents take what I earn,” is not an excuse for stealing or for lying about stealing. It seems you see potential in this boy and perhaps realize that you can be a pivotal influence in his future life.