Hello, I am 41 with 2 children ages 8 and 10. I have been begging my husband for a third child for nearly 3 years now and he will not allow it. He says he does not want another child, and I am so upset, angry and heartbroken. I feel like it’s unfair of him to steal my right to procreate and that this is not really his decision. Why does he get what he wants and I am left without?
Please tell me how I can get him to change his mind. I am furious and grieving all at the same time, and it is destroying our marriage.
You sound very desperate and suffering as you long for another baby. If this has been going on for three years, then we can understand that your marriage has suffered.